Wow, that’s an ugly standard he wants to set for the relationship with his mother, one you should absolutely end if your relationship is to have some permanence. Vegeta and Venom super Saiyan shirt. I recommend q hard and fast move out of surrender 1st. Tell SO now that it’s not negotiable, you’re out. He can stay. But you need to go. You’ve already seen them act like a child. You for sure need to not get sucked in by this. And is he very hesitant to attach me to someone who allows themselves to continue to be manipulated like that? If he continues to allow it, and you start with him, just picture her using this tactic when it comes to your wedding, your career, how you raise your children, etc. Girl saves yourself. If he really wants to leave with you he will leave.
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I can already see her crying because I tried on a dress without her, or imposing her own tastes on a wedding. Vegeta and Venom super Saiyan shirt. He doesn’t want to stand up to her, and I know it’s been over 20 years of conditioning, but he needs to take a stand and show her that he’s not a child and he can do what he wants. Her husband is the exact same, he’s just silent and waits for her tantrums to end. She’s toxic It isn’t your BF’s fault that his mom is a disaster. What is his fault is the way he has handled her. I think you should leave, regardless of if you end the relationship or not. It wouldn’t be abandoning him, that’s his normal. He could move out and stand up to her anytime he wants. He’s not chained there lol. But for your own sake, you should find somewhere.
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You are not responsible for how she acts. Vegeta and Venom Super Saiyan shirt. She wants you “scared” to keep control of you. You need to get out ASAP! The suggestion to do it together (without telling her) is an excellent one. If your SO doesn’t want to go then that is on him. His mom has crushed him to the point he does not realize how bad the situation is. He needs therapy too. Thru therapy he can learn how to stand up for himself and decide what type of relationship he wants with her. Good Luck! Sweetie, she’s gonna break up her own family. Her behavior is what will put an end to the status quo, not you. You’re asking your partner for normal and healthy boundaries in your relationship, not that h abandon her and never speak to her again.
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What’s the other choice? You live there forever? You are in your 20s. Vegeta and Venom super Saiyan shirt. Fly away like Superman! Oh, and yes, take the cat. This is not your problem. likely dare not. You deserve the best life you can have. It will not be under the thumb of his momma. Stop discussing moving out with her. She wants you to go and SO to stay. She will actively sabotage SO moving out with the long-term plan of breaking the two of you up. So you need to have a frank discussion with SO: Do you actually intend on moving out or do you intend to keep placating your mom? When you get ready to move out: rent a PO Box in advance and have your mail forwarded to the PO. This prevents mail from arriving at the old address and MIL.