Can I ask what country you are ref-ing in? I Paused My Game to be Here Shirt. Also, I enjoyed reading your last two posts but instead of calling both teams “xxxx” can you call them each something different? Even like Team A and Team B cuz, I kept getting confused at certain parts. you make me never want to be a ref, I think the best refs always keep a smile on their face. When players get in your face you can’t let them know you are regretting your orginal decision. You have one of the hardest jobs in the sport. One that usually goes overlooked, and although you had a bad game, I say keep at it. Strikers have bad games, goal keepers have bad games, and managers have bad games, so just stay strong and focused. I can see why the player’s actions would make you feel worse, but as a player that has said every thing imaginable to a referee for “bad calls,” I can assure you, unfortunately, this will continue. Just stay strong, and don’t stop loving what you do.
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Wow. That blows mate, but keep at it! It does get better. I Paused My Game to be Here Shirt. Interesting that for your 2nd game you’d be at such a level. Around here it doesn’t matter how old you are, you start your “career” at the U8, then you work your way up. Granted, this is only for a Rec. league, but still, it gives you the ability to grow accustomed to watching for multiple things at a time, handling players/coaches/parents, field positioning, etc. I’ve been at it something like 12 years now and I referee the U16 kids and make 25 US$ a game. Again, this is a rec league, where everyone plays every position and the “goal” is fun and learning (my line judges are parent/sibling volunteer).
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I Paused My Game to be Here Shirt. Not in the sense of not punishing them, but personally. You can’t let your happiness or unhappiness with your performance be dictated by the players and managers. Players and managers are lying, cheating morons (I exaggerate of course). If you approach with that attitude though you’ll be much better off. Players and managers will take every opportunity to try and influence you because they know it works with some referees. You are there to be the only impartial party in the match. You will make the wrong decisions. Players and managers will make mistakes as well, but remember that everyone else expects you to be perfect and this expectation is wholly unreasonable and ridiculous.
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Just work on your positioning so your decisions are credible and do your best. I Paused My Game to be Here Shirt. In my opinion, it’s your FA that should be losing sleep by putting you at that high of a level so fast. Please try not to lose any more sleep over these idiots. If your account is anything to go by, though, really it’s the players and managers in your area that have caused the referee shortage with their entitled attitudes. Don’t let the assigner put you on games you don’t feel ready for. Better to referee a few grades down, or on kids games, where the presence of a neutral referee will be appreciated. And run some lines 🙂 It’s a good way to learn how to see the game as a referee rather than as a player (case in point- don’t watch the ball looping up in the air, watch the two players underneath between whom a foul might occur.) Feel free to PM me about anything refereeing-concerned. Hope you didn’t abandon the whistle. I was enjoying living vicariously.edit: spelling